Well, that's nice.

"Hi. I'd like you to change so you don't do something bad."
"Okay. Show me how I should think to start changing."
"No. You wouldn't get it."

...Which, eh, maybe I wouldn't. But here's the thing: offering yourself up to other people like that is a surefire way to get hurt. I was just trying to warn you before you did.

But whatever.